The birds strip my poor little palm trees, and the moles keep pushing up my groundcovers and trees before they can get going. It’s wild.


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February 11, 2021
I have heard complaints recently on the ridiculous amount of fake news, links, spam, and hackable content floating around the interwebs.Covid-21 is obviously creating ample opportunity for people to come up with ingenious ways of getting under our skin. Links and videos from ‘a friend of a friend’ are ubiquitous.
Anyone can give an opinion on any topic using whatever platform they desire, including irritating 20 minute WhatsApp voice notes from ‘real doctors’.
Do you frequently experience rolling eyes and exasperated sighs as you try to share these links about what is really going on in the world?
Before we get into the tips for sharing digitally, there’s a caveat. Ask yourself a question before you click share: “Why do I want to duplicate this information?” That’s the first secret to whether you should share what’s on your screen, or permanently delete it.
These, and many other questions, should precede any action on your part, but don’t press the button until you’re clear on why you want to forward a snippet to others.
If you’re sure you want to forward the information, voice note, link, or news, here are five tips on how to do that without losing face:
If you see something dramatic or shocking, check it first. Go to sites like snopes.com, search for your story. Is it on the ‘fake’ list?
If the information has been shared on several news sites with different statistics, numbers, dates, names, or orders of events, don’t share it.
Who is sharing the information? Is it current? Look at the date of the social media post or article – was it a missing person from 2016 who has already been found? Don’t share it.
Why would someone bring it up again now? Do you even know that person or are they a social media shadow? Why do you think they would be sharing it here, at this time, on this platform, to this audience? If you don’t know the answer, don’t share it.
Read the article or listen to the voice note right the way through. Did you grow bored halfway? Don’t share it.
Did you skip the article, react to the headline, and get stuck in the explosive comments section? Don’t share it.
If it is medical information, it should be peer reviewed or well-supported by credible, medical people. Is it a lone doctor on a mission without facts that can be verified?
It is okay to be different, but nobody is smart enough to stumble upon life-changing information that is not supported by any other credible source anywhere in the world.
Before you forward anything, type the reasons why you think it applies to the person with whom you want to share it. Also, type what it is, and the bottom line. Is that too much effort? Don’t share it.
Discernment is a virtue in the digital domain. The more rubbish you share, the less people listen.
If you’ve understood your own reaction, checked it isn’t fake, read the whole thing, verified the facts, and thought about the author’s motives, and written your own reasons for forwarding it… share it.
If not, maybe it’s best to connect in another way, like sending a funny GIF, meme or video. Better yet, have dinner together and turn off the Wi-Fi.
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I have two small children, and two fluffy white bunnies hopping about the garden. And snakes.

The other day I walked into the nursery to change a nappy and there was another green snake slithering over the baby’s sock drawer.
I had a good look, heart pumping, and phone out to capture a fuzzy photograph for posterity (and Facebook).
Then I closed the door quickly so that it didn’t find its way around the rest of the house.
When we came back with a bucket and tongs, it had disappeared.
The western Natal green snake, exploring the things in the baby’s room.
It was just a Western Natal Green snake, probably the one that lives in the spiky tree right off the porch. What if it wasn’t, though? Snakes are daily features in Oribi Gorge.
A scorching day brings gorgeous cobalt skies and blows away the rolling mist, but it also beckons to the creatures that keep this ecosystem thriving.
We have all sorts on the doorstep, venomous and harmless, which is why my children wear gumboots in the yard.
The deadliest are the black mambas, boomslang, vine snakes, puff adders, and Mozambique spitting cobras, but there’s a long list for herpers to tick off.
Natal black snakes are common but rarely seen, and night adders seem to find my house the most attractive place on earth – I have been bitten once, and my poor builder twice!
There are also perilous green mambas, though not endemic to Oribi Gorge.
I’ve no idea why someone would put us in that danger, but these ones are dropped here from all your coastal ‘rescues’ to upset the balance of nature (and give this Oribi Mom slithery nightmares).
We live at peace with the vast number of harmless or mildly venomous snakes that keep our rat and frog population in check.
There are feisty and fearless Heralds, lightning-fast grass snakes, and the super green climbers, like the dainty spotted bush snakes with their orange eyes and pretty black spots.
I wasn’t even going to mention the python population as those are ‘safe,’ right? (not in Francistown, Botswana, apparently). I’d rather have the egg-eater that visited our chicken coop – no teeth or venom!
I have two small children, and two fluffy white bunnies hopping about the garden.
Many people are horrified by our close encounters, like the huge baboon spider in the bathroom, harmless but hairy.
For two days, it kept watch over the toilet paper, which lay unused until he moved off.
Scorpions abound, but most are harmless to humans, though the sting is like fire.
This is Africa, but not always that wildness we associate with Jock of the Bushveld characters. It’s also home.
Perhaps, this is how we are meant to live – a bit of healthy awareness never hurt anyone who walked closely with the living things of the earth.
So far, it’s working for us, even when lines are crossed by cheeky green snakes in my baby’s room.